The Relative Self is concerned with it's own Emotional needs and the Given illusion of our reality. Our Higher Self is concerned with Sustainable or Universal truth, truth that stands true on all levels of understanding.
To be unaffected release and let go of the emotional ties and remain in a space of Empathy and Compassion to all living things.
Embrace the higher self in your existence 
IN THE NOW 
and at all times.
There is a danger of repression of the emotion as opposed to it's release.
Let go in Highest Divine Love, Forgiveness and Gratitude.
All experience is equally valid
Always hold Gratitude for the experience and aim to work through and clear the emotional "baggage"
To seek truth one must stand in truth unconditionally and universally.
True Self
Higher Self
Divine Manifest